Hey Guys, I am so sorry for the lack of comunitcation and the no posts. Today i wanted to talk about body image and the stigma on body image.
People think that everyone should have a arse and big boobs. With a thin waist and legs. People think that people should have big lip, perfect hair and brows. But realisticly that will hnever happen. Not sveryone is the same shape and size. We all are unique in are own way. For example i amd i am tiny and short and a good friends of mine is bigher and taller woth small eyes and she has am amazing figure.
At one point in my life about 2-3 years ago i was a short chubbie person and i became ill and i lost loads of weight. I got really unwell and now people complain that i am to thin. But sometimes I do feel and think i am 'fat'. But in realitiy i arent. I have got to the point where i am in kids clothes i used to fit in adult clothes but the legs are way too long for my short legs and the kids are to.
I just want to say that not one should be judged on the parence and their size and height. You are all perfect the way that you are. I now know that and i now do thing for myself. Such as wear make up , do my hair nice, get percings and wear clothes. The one thing i don't do is show it off. I never wear belly tops, shorts or boobie tops. I am a over size girl and i 9 time out of 10 wear hoodies. But i am going to college in september so i am going to try and challenge myself to start wearing fitted tops, dresses and other clothes not jumpers and jeans.
I feel like if your look in the mirror and think bad about yourself you feel bad about yourself. And then you think everyone else is thinking that to but they propbally aren't. I know kids are crowel these days but i think that it is because they thing that about themself i know you think they are perfect.
I have no confidents and i throught my body was the reason why but it isnt. No matter what size i am i still arent verdonfident but when i was younger and chubbier i felt much more confident. I just want to say being thin doesnt always boost your confident. Also loosing it all at onces isnt to. I lost all my weight like a click of the fingers and now i am always poorly. I have trouble with my back but since i lost the weight i do have a lot more pains and i am very run down.
I want to you all to know you are all beautiful and dont let people put you down. And you dont need boys to tell you, you are beautiful. Also boys should love your personaltiy not you apparence.
Leave a comment on this topic and what you think about it. We can all help each other in every situation.
XOXO Maddie
Ps there might not be as many post as the next two months are exams 😬😬
